Day 3 !!!
Finally arrived at Phuket...
Had a very very long journey from HatYai to here.
like 4 hours i think.
I slept in the bus like pig again too.
I have very good sleeps and very good digestion as well ^^
Better than in M'sia.
Not sure if its the food here or its me being so carefree and stressfree ^^
This is the hotel i stayed.
Very satisfied with it. ^^
Look at it. 31 *nai nai* road haha.
So cute~
Oh yea, when youre in Thailand, your phone shows you where are you exactly.
Instead of showing Digi/Maxis/Celcom or wateva, it showed Nai nai road haha. ^^
So u wont get lost as well. kewl rite?
Oh btw, this Hotel actually has a Bible!
And its dual-language too! awesome! can read in Thai ^^
I can sleep ALOT better with the bible here.
We went shopping! ^^
Ended up talking to the aunties.
They gave me really really good advice too.
Theres an Auntie from China.
Her life was very miserable back then.
She met her *now* husband when she was like 16 i think.
Her parents didnt allow coz he was poor.
Parents actually hit her until she couldnt walk.
Yeah that bad!
Well, of course our parents will neva wanna see us suffer but hitting her like this is just too much.
Neway, she said that she sees something good in him.
(wat people use to say - blinded by love)
She didnt give up. She tried reasoning to her parents and they finally gave in.
They had around 6 children now. She wanted more than that.
She wanted 10 ! lolx when i heard it i went like *WHAT?* ! lolx
She say she like to cook ALOT and invite everyone to come.
The more the merrier ^^
If its me, i think ill be so broke lolx.
Dah lah cannot really cook, nak jg anak samore. mati aku!
But they are really cute!
I heard when 1 baby start to cry, then the rest will also follow. haha
That means if i were to have 10 kids, then all 10 will cry together.
My roof also jatuh!
So she told me that no matter what you do, you must think clearly.
Not just that, u must feel it with your heart.
Before she got married, she had and still have the feeling that her *now* husband is a very responsible, hard working and a caring boy.
She had faith in him.
She knows that they both will last long and live happily together even if they are both poor.
They worked hard together to earn money for their house and kids.
Now she has 3 houses! all her kids have got their families as well.
So awesome rite?! ^^
She also told me that all the girls must respect their body ^^
Meaning to say take care of ur body and keep your virginity.
Yes it is old-fashioned but sometimes, old fashion ways are better.
Come to your sense and think about it.
Keep it for your future partner.
So when they get mad, they wont turn around and say " You're second handed/ pass-me-downs"
If this msg comes too late for you, well, you gotta work harder to not get into trouble like this ^^
Aunty says when you have a partner, your heart will automatically tell you if that person is good or bad.
Sometimes, you don't even need your heart, one look on the face tells it all.
But of course, don't judge a book by its cover. ^^
Example, girls who goes for manicure and pedicures doesn't mean they are very rich.
or
Guys who don't cut their nails doesn't mean they are lazy and untidy.
Aunty says, " take in advice from the elders and follow your heart coz people may not see what you're feeling and have FAITH"
Just remember to TRUST each other and don't doubt.
Coz if u want your other half to trust you, your other half definitely want you to trust him/her back.
If you both are strong enough to stand against all these bad things that you wouldn't want him/her to do to you... (E.g Cheating!) you guys will be good together.
Oh and i 4got 1 more !
PATIENCE!
She say that couples nowadays do not have enough patience to stand each other's attitude.
Thats y you see lota breakups and divorces.
Everyone has their own weaknesses.
The reason you guys are together is to help each other to strengthen the weaknesses and boost your strengths.
Help each other along the way. Don't just fold your arms and sit on the comfy chair complaining the whole time.
Thats TEAMWORK too ^^
You'll find love !
Thats all i remember. I added up some of them but i have her main points there.
Hope it helps you guys (whoever tat is reading)
Nothing much in the shopping mall tho. just walked around to exercise our legs.
Been sitting the whole time.
Needa charge up energy!!
I've learnt alot about Thailand and even learnt some tips for living my life well.
Its only DAY 3! so much more to learn!
HAPPY
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